To be recommended for Eldership you must first show yourself worthy through works, such as meeting attendance and participation, field service hours and having the "right attitude" (meaning they are organization men). Many MS will become elder's shadows, in hopes to be recommended by them for Eldership.
Nepotism and bias runs in my congregation.We have 4 Elders who are all related. The oldest Elder recommended his son and son-in-law for Eldership years ago and all were chosen. Now his granddaughter's husband has just been chosen.( So much for the holy sprit doing the choosing!)
Were Elders in your congregation biased as to who would be recommended for Eldership? Were you or anyone in your family passed up because of nepotism or bias?